An evidence-based program from Social Health Canada

Connection is a skill. Tether helps you build it.

A free, self-guided course that turns the science of loneliness and social isolation into small, doable steps — worked through at your own pace, right in your browser.

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Welcome to Tether

A self-guided course for stronger social connection — built around what the science shows actually works.

1 Why loneliness mattersFoundations · 8 min
2 Why we need each otherFoundations · 12 min
3 How loneliness works in the mindFoundations · 12 min
Learn
Habits
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You
15
cigarettes a day — the health toll chronic loneliness is comparable to
1 in 3
adults report feeling lonely with some regularity

Loneliness is one of the most common struggles there is — and one of the most changeable. Tether is built to help you change it, one small step at a time.

Loneliness is workable

It's not a flaw in you. It's a gap you can close.

Loneliness is the distance between the connection you have and the connection you want. That gap is real — and it responds to the right kind of attention.

A

It's common

Feeling disconnected isn't rare or shameful. It's one of the most widely shared human experiences — and naming it is the first move toward changing it.

B

It's understood

Decades of research explain why loneliness hurts, why it can become self-reinforcing, and — crucially — which actions reliably loosen its grip.

C

It's changeable

Small, repeated steps compound. Tether breaks the science into actions small enough to actually do, on the days you have the least to give.

How it works

A guided path, not a pile of advice

Tether is structured like a small, carefully sequenced course. Take it in order, or jump to the parts that matter most to you right now.

1

See where you're starting

A few short, private well-being check-ins give you an honest baseline — so the course can meet you where you actually are.

2

Work through the lessons

Bite-sized lessons explain what loneliness is and build practical skills — drawn from CBT and group-based loneliness interventions.

3

Practice in daily life

Habit tracker, thought records, a journal, and social goals turn each lesson into small actions you carry into your week.

The organizing framework

Built on the Public Health Guidelines for Social Connection

Six evidence-based guidelines — developed through an international expert process — are the north star of the course. Every lesson, habit, and goal traces back to one of them.

1

Make social connection a priority

Treat connection like sleep, food, or exercise — an ongoing investment, not an afterthought.

2

Cultivate social confidence

Build the skills and self-trust that make connection easier — and help others around you do the same.

3

Build a variety of relationships

Acquaintances, friendships, intimates — each layer matters. Spread your investment across several people.

4

Get enough social connection

Daily contact matters, and so does quality. The course helps you make sure you're getting both.

5

Maintain and deepen relationships

The connections you already have are the highest-yield place to invest — and the easiest to neglect.

6

Seek face-to-face interaction

Embodied presence does things screens cannot. Use technology to facilitate connection, not replace it.

Explore the full guidelines at socialconnectionguidelines.org.

The shape of the course

Foundations first — then five modules of skills

Start by understanding loneliness and assessing your own social health. Then build, in whatever order suits you, the skills that close the gap.

Start here

Foundations

Eight short lessons on what loneliness is, why we need each other, and how to assess where your social health stands today.

Module 1

Creating Connections

Two evidence-based programs — Acts of Kindness, and Acting Like an Extravert.

Module 2

Belonging & Inclusion

Strengthen the groups and identities that anchor you. Adapted from Groups 4 Health.

Module 3

Internal Barriers

CBT skills for social anxiety, cognitive distortions, and fear of rejection.

Module 4

Connection Skills

A practical library — from small talk to deep friendship, conflict, and graceful endings.

Module 5

External Barriers

Strategies for the real-world obstacles: time, mobility, money, and stigma.

Tools you'll use along the way

The course doesn't end when the lesson does

Each lesson hands you a practical tool — so insight turns into something you actually do this week.

Daily habit tracker

Tick off small connection actions each day. Streaks make it stickier.

Thought record tool

Catch and challenge unhelpful social thoughts as they happen.

Reflective journal

Reflect after activities. Past entries stay in one place to look back on.

Social goals

Set SMART goals tied directly to the Public Health Guidelines.

Why you can trust it

Grounded in research, not wellness clichés

Tether translates peer-reviewed science on loneliness and social connection into a format you can actually work through on your own.

An expert-built framework

Organized around guidelines developed through an international Delphi process with social-connection researchers.

Proven intervention methods

Lessons adapt cognitive-behavioural and group-based loneliness interventions shown to help in clinical trials.

Sources you can check

Claims throughout the course link straight to the studies behind them — nothing asks for blind trust.

Some of the research behind Tether

  • Card et al. (2025) — Public Health Guidelines for Social Connection, Health Policy.
  • Holt-Lunstad (2023) — Social connection as a public-health priority.
  • Masi et al. (2011) — A meta-analysis of interventions to reduce loneliness.
  • Käll et al. (2020) — Cognitive-behavioural therapy for loneliness, Behavior Therapy.
  • Haslam et al. (2019) — Groups 4 Health and social-identity approaches to loneliness.

Your answers stay with you

Everything you write — check-ins, journal entries, goals — is stored only in your own browser. Nothing is sent to a server, and no account is required to begin.

The hardest part is starting. This part is free.

Open the course and take the first short lesson. You can stop any time — and pick up exactly where you left off.

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